True and false family

(An open letter to the UN organization)

 

In December 2009, UNESCO (in cooperation with UNICEF, WHO, UNAIDS, UNPFA /UN Population Fund/) issued a document under the title of International Technical Guidance on Sexuality Education. It sets out the topics and objectives of education.

 

The reality of life purposefully ignored by the UN

 

Quotation from International Technical Guidance on Sexuality Education: “Many different kinds of families exist around the world (e.g. two-parent, single-parent, child-headed, guardian-headed, extended, nuclear and non-traditional families, etc.).”

Response: The UN document on sexuality education aims to radically transform children’s minds from early childhood as regards family, sound relationships and moral values bound up with human dignity and family home.

 

The UN violates the relationship between parents and children. It fabricates new varieties of family and implants this demagogy in the minds of 5-year-old children as a new view of life. It purposefully ignores the reality.

They could just as well write: Many different kinds of people exist around the world: e.g. two-eyed... Everyone knows that all people have two eyes. The one who has only one eye or is blind is not a different kind of the human race but a handicapped person.

What a crime that the UN puts a perverted, unnatural way of thinking into children’s minds, thus leading them since early childhood to view things that are unsound as a norm.

The UN promotes a policy which ignores elementary pedagogical principles and fundamental relations between mother and child, children and parents. It ignores human nature as such as well as the original cell of human society, i.e. the family, and establishes antihumanism. It fabricates pseudofamilies which are no families but just perverted unions formed by homosexuals, lesbians and transsexuals.

 

A sound family forms a sound generation; an antifamily produces criminals and mentally disordered people who will then take revenge on the society and cynically promote the culture of death (the spread of AIDS and of other fatal diseases, propagation of euthanasia, enforcement of perverted homolaws, and mass annihilation – so-called reduction of humanity).

 

Quotation: “Family members’ roles may change when a young family member ... discloses their sexual orientation.” (part of the curriculum for children over 15 years of age)

Response: The UN antieducation normalizes homosexuality and transsexuality as a natural part of life, and that is a deceit and a crime against the young generation! By normalizing the evil it teaches children to accept evil as good so that they no longer protect themselves against its negative influence.

 

Quotation: “Relationships involve different kinds of love and love can be expressed in many different ways.” (part of the curriculum for children between 5 and 8 years of age)

Response: In essence, it leads children to accept paedophilia as an expression of so-called love. It purposefully deceives children with a view to abusing them sexually.

The UN definition of love includes perverted or illicit sexual relations. Even the ancient Greeks discerned between sexuality and love. The term eros denoted sexual relations, philia was a term for the love of parents to children, children to parents, and the love for the nation, and the term agape expressed the love to God.

 

Quotation: “Adults show love and care for other people in different ways, including sometimes through sexual behaviours.” (part of the curriculum for children between 5 and 8 years of age)

Response: Antieducation instructs children how they are to view perversion. They are to accept it as an expression of love and care.

This is killing of the conscience in the souls of poor children.

 

Quotation: “People living with HIV should be able to express their love and feelings and to marry or enter into long-term commitments and to start a family, if they choose to do so.” (part of the curriculum for children between 12 and 15 years of age)

Response: The UN thus teaches children to lose the natural fear of disease and to remove any protective barriers against disease. And then, it teaches them to have no scruples about infecting others with a fatal disease.

They suggestively argue that people with a fatal infectious disease may start a family, i.e. beget children, but they do not say that these people will then see their children dying in terrible pain before their very eyes.

This is a systematic deceit on children and cynical manipulation of their minds.

 

Quotation: “Interest in sexuality may change with age and can be expressed throughout life.” (part of the curriculum for children between 12 and 15 years of age)

Response: This is a blatant lie and manipulation of young people so as to make them open up to homosexuality through propaganda.

 

The UN document concerning the school curriculum is an attack on sound mind with the aim of disrupting the family and consequently the entire nations.

 

If the family breaks up, it involves suffering of both the husband and wife, but who is subjected most to suffering, stigmatization, discrimination and psychic traumata is children. The family creates conditions for healthy development and maturation of personality. If a child is deprived of the conditions of a family home, this child loses the consciousness of parental love, a sense of belonging, mental stability and the ability to build sound relationships. Life experience shows that such children grow into adult criminals. They are not able to establish a family and to face the problems of life with responsibility. For instance, children from children’s homes usually turn to crime and end up in prison. Though children’s homes provide them with accommodation, clean clothes, healthy food, education and health care, it can never replace parental love and an intimate family atmosphere.

 

Since mankind’s origins the foundation of human society is the family. There is no man who would not have father and mother. The love of children is inscribed by nature in the hearts of parents, and children, similarly, are strongly tied to their parents. This bond between them is emotional, spiritual and physical. A small child, if isolated, dies.

 

The role of the family is not only the procreation of children but also the creation of favourable conditions for their mental and spiritual maturity. Education correctly forms children’s minds, implants in them sound moral principles and teaches them to build sound relationships to people and things. One needs to realize that man’s life is not a life of an individual but a life within a community. The basic community is the family. A sound family is formed by father and mother who are complementary in fulfilling their duties. Their mission is unreplaceable. Great people were brought up in sound families. Seducers of mankind adopted diseased ideas through various ideologies or philosophies and became mediums of evil.

 

The family must be viewed from the perspective of eternity too. In Christian terms, the primary purpose of marriage is mutual support in fostering moral and spiritual values and a common fight against evil which is both in man and in the world in order to receive the crown of eternal glory. Man is not a mere animal but differs from all creatures in that he is spiritual and his life does not end with death. Every man will render an account for his life before the One who created him and put conscience in his heart. The life’s mission is not to commit crimes and to exploit other people or things for one’s own selfish ends. The basic mission of man is to fill his life with pure love, which involves sacrifice. In the first place man is obliged to love the One who created him and who became man Himself to deliver him from the cruel slavery of the devil. Saint Augustine says: “God became man so that man might become God.” God in the person of Jesus Christ took on Himself all our sins. His Blood cleanses our soul and makes it free of guilt on the condition that we receive the forgiveness of sins and our salvation through faith. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” (Jn 3:16) Man is obliged in the first place to love God who created him and redeemed him. Man expresses his love of God in two ways: by keeping God’s commandments and by loving his neighbour as himself. True love toward oneself desires true and eternal happiness, that is, eternal life beginning here in time and not ending with death. Eternal life is given to us already here on earth and this life is in Jesus Christ. Therefore it is true: “He who has the Son has eternal life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life.” (1Jn 5:11-12) A human being, spiritual values, the meaning of life and suffering in everyday life must be viewed from this perspective of transcendence.

 

God answers our most essential questions in His Word. For more than 2.000 years the Bible has been the source of true light and true answer to a deep spiritual thirst of the human heart after pure happiness. St. Augustine expresses this truth with the words: “You have made us for Yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in You.” Man will not attain true peace and happiness if he ruins God’s laws and legalizes evil and lies. Career, wealth or worldly pleasures will not make man happy. All this only engulfs the human heart by a feeling of emptiness and remorse.

 

The soul of every man longs for God who is the Truth and Love at the same time. Therefore, a Christian family formed by a man and a woman is raised to the dignity of a sacrament. It means that God Himself dwells in a special way in every family which made a promise before His face of lifelong faithfulness and self-sacrificing love. God gives the Christian couple the strength to fight against the system of lies and evil and against the power of egoism which is the contrary of selfless love. Egoism has its source in lies and in the root of evil which is the result of the first man’s disobedience and revolt against God. It is an expression of unbelief toward Him and an opening of the heart to the enemy of the human race, to the spirit of lies and death. The primary task of the Christian family (husband and wife), standing above all other secondary tasks, is to support each other in the spiritual fight for their own salvation, for the salvation of their children as well as for the salvation of numbers of other immortal souls.

 

There are thousands of moving examples, when the husband fell into bad ways and his Christian wife remained faithful to him for all her life and sacrificed herself wholly for their children. Many women struggled for the salvation of their husbands to the last minute and when these repented at last, it was the greatest happiness of their lives. They were fully aware of their duty of love coupled with a desire for their husbands’ salvation. These women drew their strength from prayer, from God’s Word and from the Eucharist so as to be able to carry their cross on the path of life. The suffering of a self-sacrificing and loving mother was an example for the children of selfless love. When the children grew up, this example of love personified by their mother shone for them in hard times of loneliness, depression or despair. The pure love of the mothers, coupled with sacrifice, saved the family. The rule holds true: “Examples work miracles.” A sound Christian family leads the young man and woman to deny their natural egoism and egocentrism and to make sacrifices for the sake of one another and of their children. A sound Christian family is able to bring up a sound young generation, which is a priceless treasure for every nation.

 

Nevertheless, even those people who grew up in sound families, adopted sound principles and were given a good example by their parents are exposed to the power and cunning of lies and evil which work in them as well as in the system of the world. So the whole life of each and every man is a struggle against evil and against antivalues which cause pain and suffering both to oneself and to others. The keeping of God’s commandments and the fostering of moral and spiritual values makes the family into a real paradise. If these divine principles leaven the whole nation, they bring true peace and blessing.

 

The programme of the renewal of the family:

 

The Christian family is founded on the vow made by man and woman by which they make commitment of faithfulness to God and to one another. It is a promise of mutual respect and love and of bearing together both good and bad until death.

 

So that the Christian family might endure to the end, and especially at the present critical time, it needs the conditions. It needs a living Christian community built on the fundamental biblical principles. The early Christians continued steadfastly in:

a)    prayers,

b)    the apostles’ doctrine,

c)    fellowship (koinonia),

d)    the breaking of bread (Eucharist – liturgy) (cf. Acts 2:42).

These four elements are integral to true celebration of the seventh day, Sunday. On this day, the first day after the sabbath, Christ was raised from the dead and on Sunday, too, the Holy Spirit descended upon the apostles and the Church to make them and all the believers witnesses to Christ.

 

The apostles’ doctrine is the expression of the divine truths in the way they were taught and lived by the apostles. It is free from all heresies which destroy Christianity at the very root.

 

Fellowship is a community of people who have received the teaching and the Spirit of Christ and sincerely desire to live as disciples of Christ at the present time. A special task is the one of men. Man in the family has an irreplaceable role of the father who is responsible before God for his wife and children. His task is not only to safeguard material security of the family but also to seek and create the conditions for a sound family which respects God’s order and laws and hence enjoys God’s blessing. Man must be the head of the Christian family. If he is not, he needs inner healing in a community of believing men. Then he is able to assume this role and, as head, to deal with problems and search for solutions, and not escape from them or take to drinking instead. Every sensible girl or woman desires a good husband who will be a good father of their children and will protect her and the family. This desire is in the heart of each and every girl. The problem is the education and formation of the new generation of men and women in responsible fatherhood and motherhood. The strongest emotional bond is between a child and its mother. A lot of mothers were ready even to sacrifice their lives for the sake of their children. There is also a strong relationship of love between a child and its father. The child regards its father as an ideal and feels secure with him. A good father is an assurance of a family home and of life stability. A child who has lost its father after the break-up of the family suffers from deprivation, which causes grave damage that can mark the child for life. This is then manifested in the child’s relationships to other people and in an inability to make correct decisions and to deal with the problems of life. The unfulfilled desire for paternal love and authority is compensated for by various poor substitutes which, however, can never satisfy it (e.g. seeking after leaders, ideologues, gurus; falling into the traps of sects or gangs).

 

The task of both the Church and the society is to educate the young generation in responsible parenthood. We repeat again that the reform of the family requires a sound community with the Spirit of God, not the spirit of the world, and with spiritually mature members who can pass on their experience to the young generation. Young women too should be formed in a sound community of women where the older women should teach them to be submissive to their own husbands, to adorn themselves with modesty and other Christian virtues, and, above all, how to bring up their children in a Christian manner so that once they also may be good parents. This is the first and foremost task of every Christian woman (Tit 2:4). Unfortunately, instead of these sound principles the feminist movement promotes false equality, nowadays even homosexuality, lesbianism, transsexuality, juvenile justice (removing children from normal families), abortions, euthanasia and all kinds of perversion. Feminists are the greatest enemies of a sound family, of decent women, mothers and wives, and thus also the greatest enemies of the human society. Demonic pride drives them to seize power and to manipulate others, the end of it being self-destruction of the entire nations. They systematically organize meetings and stimulate this spirit of lies and death. The more so it is necessary for Christian women and Christian mothers to organize themselves for the salvation of the family and society from self-destruction.

 

We emphasize again that a woman in the family, even if she is sometimes more intelligent than man, is to be the heart of the family and a man is to be its head (Eph 5:21-25). Both of them must become mature for these specific but mutually complementary tasks through a sound Christian formation and through good example of holy men and women who were the true heroes of humanity.

 

If this renewed family is presented to the young generation as a model and ideal, which all youngsters are longing for, all false models of families – which are enforced by the UN even on five-year-old children – will be taken as deterrent examples of those who have rejected the God-given order of the family.

After World War II the world saw a rhythm disturbance owing to the change of social and economic structures, which resulted in all-society disease called family breakdown. This process of disintegration of family and demoralization of society is associated with the so-called sexual revolution of Kinsey which is built on lies and perverted principles. These principles ignore human dignity as well as human personality and through perverted sexuality degrade man below the level of animals. This disintegration process is also supported by rock music connected with the cult of violence, impurity and narcotics. Likewise false ideologies associated with guruism, invasion of sects, strong promotion of occultism (magic, divination and spiritualism) and false spirituality destabilized entire present generation. It has opened up to demonic forces through various oriental meditations and practices tied with contemporary psychologies. Yoga and martial arts are likewise linked with these oriental spiritual practices which deny basic principles of Christianity and sound moral principles.

 

Unfortunately, stale Christianity failed to protect millions of Christian souls who have become victims of various ideologies. Instead of turning people’s hearts to God the Second Vatican Council turned the altars to face the people. The crisis of Christianity consists in the fact that it has left the sound roots and drove away the Spirit of God. Through practical unbelief it has denied its essence which is the inspiration of God’s Word, the divinity of Christ, His redemptive death on the cross and His historical and real resurrection. The true faith and sound moral principles were replaced by different philosophies and psychologies. Unfortunately, such Christianity is unable to convey to the apostatized Christian Europe and to other formerly Christian nations the power to fight against the system of lie and cunning evil.

 

Hereby our Bishops’ Synod of the UOGCC appeals to the Catholic bishops who are responsible for this global situation to resign their offices and give an opportunity to new generation of bishops so that they might carry out a true reform of the Church. Then such a reformed Church can be the light, the salt and the leaven of this world.

 

This is a brief diagnosis. We ask: What is the means for the restoration of humanity? There is only one – return to the sound roots. Unfortunately, the UN, EU and PACE beat the opposite path instead. They legalize sin, perversion and embody it not only in the laws but also in the global education system. This is not only denial of God’s laws but also of the natural laws and a forcible introduction of antilaws and antivalues. This is a crime against humanity which is associated with Satanism and the respect for its antigod. This path of the UN, EU and PACE leads to the loss of common sense, to cynicism, to ignoring the reality, to disintegration of any human relationship and, eventually, to the genocide of the whole planet. From this global point of view one has to look at and evaluate the activities of these worldwide and international organizations. Therefore we appeal to their representatives and all members to repent, to realize whereto this criminal ideology leads to which they have opened themselves, and also to realize that it bears the physical and eternal death.

 

Our Bishops’ Synod hereby appeals to the above-mentioned organizations to start to promote true values and seek recovery, and not demonization of human society, with the same thoroughness with which they now promote evil and perversion in the education of the young generation. We hereby remind individuals in responsible positions that they will soon stand before the judgement seat of God and if they will not be converted and will remain in obstinacy, they will be eternally condemned and will suffer torments of hell for all eternity. No false theories about reincarnation are able to change this harsh reality.

 

We also appeal to all countries of the world not to accept the perverted policy of the United Nations but to view it critically and soberly without letting themselves be deprived of moral values and sound principles of life.

      In Christ

                    Bishops of the UOGCC

                                      + Elias OSBMr

                                      + Samuel OSBMr

                                      + Markian OSBMr

                                      + Methodius OSBMr

 

                                                                                                    Lvov, 3rd December 2010

 

Cc:

- Pope Benedict XVI

- Presidents of the UN member states

 

 

 

Address: Synod of the UOGCC, 3 Sosnova St., Lvov - Bryukhovychi, 79491, Ukraine

www.uogcc.org.ua, www.community.org.ua; pidhirci.community@gmail.com